Find Clarity & Confidence in Your Next Chapter—Free 1-Hour Divorce Coaching Session.
Get a clear, customized plan for navigating the legal, emotional, and practical steps of divorce—so you always know your next move.
Learn techniques to manage overwhelm, reduce conflict, and rebuild your sense of self during one of life’s toughest transitions.
Discover strategies to create smoother communication and stronger boundaries, putting your children’s well-being first.
Access worksheets, checklists, and follow-up support to help you stay on track long after your coaching session ends.
Free 1-Hour Coaching Session
Let us know how Step By Step Coaching can help you improve your life. Sign up now to get started with your free session.
Virtual Sessions
Stacy Totty, Certified Divorce Coach, provides virtual coaching sessions allowing you to have sessions whereever you are allowing you to book an appointment at a time that’s convenient for you.
Supplemental Resources
Continue your pre and post divorce path by taking advantage of our educational resources.
Meet Stacy Totty
Stacy Totty is a Certified Divorce Coach and Certified Divorce Transition & Recovery Coach through the CDC Certified Divorce Coach® program—the most respected and comprehensive certification in the country. With dual degrees in Accounting and Elementary Education, Stacy brings a rare blend of financial insight, clear communication, and compassionate guidance to her practice. This unique combination allows her to help clients navigate both the practical realities and the emotional challenges of divorce, from budgeting and asset division to co-parenting and rebuilding confidence.
Her professional expertise is deeply enriched by her personal journey. After an 18-year marriage that ended in a high-conflict divorce, Stacy experienced firsthand the emotional, physical, and financial toll divorce can take. She faced the challenges of co-parenting four children, rebuilding her life, and rediscovering her sense of self—with very little support. This difficult chapter inspired her to become a coach so that no one else would have to go through divorce feeling alone or unsupported.
Today, Stacy uses her lived experience and professional training to offer nonjudgmental, strategic, and empathetic support to her clients. She guides them step by step through uncertainty with clarity and strength, ensuring they feel heard, supported, and empowered throughout their journey.
Beyond her coaching work, Stacy is also a children’s book author, demonstrating her passion for communication, education, and helping families thrive. Now happily remarried, she stands on the other side of divorce with a clear mission: to help others move through transition, recover with confidence, and create the future they deserve.
How Step by Step Coaching Can Help You
Rebuilding Your Career After Divorce
Divorce can shift your entire sense of direction. Together, we’ll clarify your goals, boost your confidence, and design a realistic path to financial stability and career fulfillment.
Co-Parenting & Communication Support
Separating doesn’t mean parenting stops. Learn strategies to set healthy boundaries, reduce conflict, and create a cooperative environment that puts your children’s well-being first.
Rediscovering Yourself Beyond Divorce
This is your chance to reconnect with who you are outside of your marriage. Coaching helps you identify your strengths, break free from limiting patterns, and step into the next chapter with confidence.
Healing Together Through Group Support
You are not alone. Group coaching sessions connect you with others navigating divorce, offering encouragement, accountability, and proven strategies for moving forward together.
Taking Charge of Your Life After Divorce
Divorce often leaves people feeling uncertain and overwhelmed. Learn how to make empowered decisions, communicate with clarity, and rebuild a life where you’re in control again.
Finding Clarity in Your Next Chapter
If you’re unsure what’s next, discovery coaching will help you uncover your hidden strengths and define a clear vision for your future—one that feels hopeful, stable, and fulfilling.
Improve Your Lifestyle Today
Clarity and Confidence in Decision-Making
Clients leave sessions with a clearer understanding of their options, empowering them to make choices about finances, parenting, and their future without feeling overwhelmed or paralyzed by uncertainty.
Emotional Healing and Resilience
Through guided strategies and compassionate support, clients begin to process grief, anger, and fear—transforming pain into resilience and building the emotional strength needed to move forward.
Improved Co-Parenting and Communication
Stacy’s guidance helps clients develop healthier communication skills with their ex-spouses, reducing conflict and creating more stability for their children, which fosters long-term peace and cooperation.
Rebuilding Identity and Hope for the Future
Clients rediscover who they are outside of their marriage, rebuild self-confidence, and embrace new opportunities for joy, fulfillment, and meaningful relationships.
Choose Step by Step Coaching for Your Free 1-Hour Session.
Going through divorce can feel overwhelming, isolating, and uncertain—but you don’t have to do it alone. As a Certified Divorce Coach, Stacy Totty provides expert guidance, proven strategies, and compassionate support to help you navigate this difficult chapter and step into the next with clarity and confidence.
Stop settling for “just getting by.” You deserve peace, stability, and a future you feel excited about. The first step is simple—reach out today.
Sign up now to claim your free 1-hour coaching session with Stacy Totty. Together, we’ll create a personalized plan to help you move forward with strength.
Customer Quotes
"Working with Stacy was truly life-changing. I came to her at one of the lowest points in my life—confused, scared, and unsure of how to move forward after my divorce. She helped me break things down into manageable steps and reminded me that I wasn’t alone. Stacy didn’t just listen—she gave me the tools and confidence to rebuild my life. Today, I feel stronger, more focused, and more hopeful about the future than I ever thought possible."
Dana Rosen
"Divorce had left me overwhelmed, especially when it came to co-parenting. Every interaction with my ex felt like a battle. Stacy helped me shift my perspective and guided me with practical strategies that immediately reduced the tension. My relationship with my kids is better, and even my ex and I are communicating more effectively. I never imagined there could be this much peace on the other side of divorce, but thanks to Stacy’s support, there is."